3 Parenting Tips ~ Changing the Blaming Child

Does your child shout, "It's your fault?" Are you tired of being blamed when things go wrong? Inside you'll find some parenting tips on what to do when your child blames.

5 Common Statements Parents Hear When Their Child Doesn't Take Responsibility Include:

1. "You never …"
2. "You always…"
3. "You made me…"
4. "It's not my fault…"
5. "You should've…"

The problem starts when your child won't take responsibility for his part in problems. What can you do?

3 Parenting Tips for Helping Your Child to Quit Blaming Others for His Mistakes:

1. Find out what your child's self talk. Ask "Do you think getting in trouble for your mistakes is terrible?" Ask your child this question when things are going well like driving in the car, going for a walk, or washing the dishes together. Using a peaceful time to discuss the blaming problem makes it easier for him to tell you the truth.
2. Explain how much you admire him when he takes responsibility for his mistakes. The next time he admits his part in a problem, praise him. Let him know how much you respect his honesty.
3. With your child gather pictures of friends and relatives. Post them on the refrigerator. In the center of the pictures write the words, "Nobody's perfect. Everyone makes mistakes." Discuss the fact that everyone's a mistake maker even his friends and relatives. Tell your child when he admits his mistakes, people will like and trust him more.

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Jean

Jean Tracy, MSS